Many men go through emotional abuse but people only know when they react with their hands. If you want your man to remain the loving man you married from thebeginning, because no woman gets married to a monster, work on yourself. Help your man remain loving and caring.
Couples, if your wife or husband needs help because he/she is always abusing you physically or emotionally, get help. If he/she refuses, the Bible supports SEPARATION. Go away from your spouse until he or she realizes and do the right thing for both of you to leave in peace.
That said, Juliet Ibrahim's post is a response to Empress Njamah. Read below...
Violence should never be the end result. Seek help and get help!